Interview with Psychic Medium Barbara Bandel
Deep Insights into Spirit, Soul & Mediumship
In this in-depth interview, ParaVisie magazine sits down with Barbara Bandel, a renowned Dutch psychic medium and author.
Discover her personal experiences, insights on spirit guides, past lives, the afterlife, and practical spiritual advice.
Whether you are new to mediumship or deepening your own practice, this conversation offers clarity, inspiration, and real-life stories.
Twenty years ago, ParaVisie magazine interviewed medium Barbara Bandel for the first time. Since then, the Dutch medium has grown into a well-known name, attracting clients from all over the world.
After reading her 5-star reviewed book, we decided to sit down with her again. The result is an honest, inspiring conversation full of intriguing information, profound insights and touching stories.
Step into the world of Barbara Bandel – a genuine psychic medium with both feet firmly on the ground.
Interview by Niels Brummelman with Barbara Bandel:
On Her Most Important Messages
ParaVisie: What are the most important messages you want to share through your book?
Barbara: “That the soul and every relationship – whether short or long – is eternal. That we often give our brain more credit than our feelings, and how we can turn that around.
How do we all create our own reality? Besides the beautiful readings, I also wanted to describe the challenging consultations, so people get a complete picture of what it really means to work as a psychic and medium.”
On Spirit Guides & Guardian Angels
ParaVisie: In your book, you write about your team of spirit guides and guardian angels. How does this guidance work, and why do they present themselves to you as “Ben”?
Barbara: “Early on, I felt the need for a filter, one clear source of information instead of many different guides and angels speaking at once.
Ben stepped forward and became that filter. All information now comes through his energy, and that feels very safe and familiar to me.
When I receive messages from a deceased loved one during a session, I always let it pass through Ben first. This way, there is no interference, and it works perfectly.
From the intensity of his energy, I can immediately feel whether something is urgent for a client or not.”
On Past Lives & Reincarnation
ParaVisie: You write: “When we are born, we all start with a clean slate.” Does that mean you don’t believe in past lives, karma, etc.?
Barbara: “Of course I do! That sentence is about the moment we are born as a baby.
For many of us, it’s not the first time. On a conscious level, we remember nothing. We don’t remember that we chose our parents, family and life path ourselves.
We don’t remember our challenges, lessons, talents and soul mission. We don’t remember who we were, where we lived, or what we did in previous lives.
And I think that’s actually a good thing, some things would be too heavy for our human brain to carry.
Still, it’s fascinating to explore our soul history and slowly get a clearer picture of who we really are as a soul.”
On Communicating with Animals
ParaVisie: You can connect with both deceased people and animals. Is there a difference?
Barbara: “I really enjoy connecting with deceased animals. The big difference is that people often express regret or guilt.
With animals, I never hear that. They don’t carry hidden agendas. They live purely and understand that death is not an end, but simply a continuation in another form.”
On Finding Inner Peace & Balance
ParaVisie: Almost no one has a quiet mind these days. Do you have any tips?
Barbara: “Put your phone away more often when you feel overwhelmed. A quick tip to calm down: look outside and follow the clouds for a minute or two, or really study a tree and notice every detail.
Put on calm music. Stand up and slowly spin around with your arms outstretched. It sounds strange, but it really works! Just like we did as children, remember?”
On Contact with Deceased Loved Ones
ParaVisie: How long after someone passes can you still make contact?
Barbara: “It varies from soul to soul. A good friend of mine passed away a few years ago, and I had clear contact with her the same day.
She gave a message for her husband to reassure him. She also explained why the dogs had behaved so strangely right after she passed. They could see her soul.
Her husband confirmed the dogs’ behavior and was deeply moved by her message.”
On the Law of Attraction
ParaVisie: “What you think, you become.” Can you give an example of how you apply this in daily life?
Barbara: “It really works that way. I visualize what I want to experience. Sometimes it happens within days, sometimes weeks.
The important thing is to be clear about what you want and why. You have to let go of the ‘how’ – the Universe takes care of that.
Before I go to sleep, I often state what I want for the next day and why. That works very well for me.”
On Intuition & Ethics
ParaVisie: Is it ethical to confirm to a client that their partner is cheating, as you describe in your book?
Barbara: “Often, people already feel it strongly in their gut, but their mind makes them doubt. When I can confirm what they feel, it gives them clarity so they can take the next steps.
We are here to learn, and lessons come in many forms.”
On Life After Death
ParaVisie: What happens after we die?
Barbara: “Death is not an end, but a transition to another state of consciousness.
After leaving the physical body, the soul enters a non-physical reality. There is a period of reflection in which you review your life from a broader perspective, not with judgment, but with understanding.
You then have freedom to choose your next steps: reincarnation, exploring other dimensions, or resting and healing. Consciousness is eternal. We never stop learning and growing.”
On Highly Sensitive People (HSP)
ParaVisie: How have you benefited from your own high sensitivity, and what tips do you have for others?
Barbara: “High sensitivity often comes with high emotional intelligence. It helps you make better choices and see through bullshit quickly.
I call it a superpower. Highly sensitive people often need alone time to recharge and absorb information.
Accept who you are and shape your life in a way that feels good to you, not how others think it should be.”
Final Thoughts
ParaVisie: You’ve been in this work for a long time. What changes have you noticed?
Barbara: “I see a beautiful shift from ‘When will I meet my partner?’ to ‘What can I do to become ready for the right partner?’
People are taking more responsibility for their own growth. That makes me very happy.
The younger generation is already so wise. They communicate with their guides and understand the law of attraction.
I have great faith in the future.”
Read Barbara’s True Stories
In her book and on this website, Barbara shares many authentic, touching, real-life mediumship experiences.
From connecting with a 9/11 firefighter to receiving signs from loved ones and powerful spirit-guide interventions.
These stories illustrate everything discussed in the interview.
Read Barbara’s True & Memorable Psychic Stories
Explore More: Your Guide to Psychic & Mediumship
Dive deeper into the topics from the interview with these in-depth resources and practical guides:
Spirit Guides & Guardian Angels
Learn how spirit guides and guardian angels communicate with us, how to recognize their signs, and how to build a conscious connection in daily life.
Ideal for anyone seeking guidance and protection.
Beginners Guide to Spirit Guides
Different Kinds of Spirit Guides
Signs Your Spirit Guides Are Contacting You
Past Lives, Reincarnation & Soul Journey
Explore the fascinating world of past lives, soul contracts, and ancestral healing.
Discover how understanding your soul history can bring clarity and healing in this lifetime.
Beginners Guide to Past Life Regression
Past Lives & Ancestral Healing
Contact with Deceased Loved Ones
Find comfort and answers through mediumship.
Learn about signs from the other side, grief processing, and how loved ones continue to support us after they pass.
Signs from Deceased Loved Ones
Grief and Contact with Deceased Loved Ones
Intuition, HSP & Daily Spirituality
Develop your own psychic abilities, embrace high sensitivity as a superpower, and bring more balance and protection into your everyday life.
Are You a Highly Sensitive Person?
How to Develop Your Psychic Abilities
Practical Daily Spirituality and Protection
Our Team of Trusted Psychics & Mediums
Meet Barbara and her carefully screened consultants who offer compassionate, accurate readings in love, career, mediumship and more.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is a psychic medium?
A psychic medium can receive information from the spiritual world, including messages from deceased loved ones (mediumship) and insights into your current life, future possibilities, and energy (psychic abilities). Barbara and her team combine both for clear, compassionate guidance.
How do spirit guides work?
Spirit guides are benevolent beings that support your soul’s journey. They communicate through intuition, signs, dreams, and feelings. In the interview, Barbara explains how her guide “Ben” acts as a filter for clear, safe messages.
Can you really communicate with deceased loved ones?
Yes. Contact is often possible shortly after passing and can continue for years. Animals also come through clearly, usually without the regret or guilt that people sometimes carry.
Do past lives and karma really affect us?
Absolutely. Although we start each life with a “clean slate” on a conscious level, our soul carries lessons, talents, and patterns from previous incarnations. Exploring them can bring deep healing and understanding.
How can I develop my own psychic abilities?
Start with daily practices: meditation, paying attention to gut feelings, and keeping a journal of signs and dreams. Barbara’s free e-books and beginner's guides offer practical exercises.
Is it ethical for a medium to tell someone their partner is cheating?
When done with care and only when the client already senses it, confirmation can bring clarity and help them move forward. The goal is always empowerment, not fear.
What happens after we die?
Death is a transition. The soul reviews its life with love and understanding, then chooses its next path — rest, healing, helping others, or reincarnation. Consciousness is eternal.
I’m highly sensitive (HSP). Is that a burden or a gift?
It is a superpower when you learn to manage it. High sensitivity brings deep emotional intelligence, strong intuition, and the ability to help others. Learn to protect your energy and create space for yourself.
How do I choose the right psychic medium?
Look for someone with experience, clear reviews, and a style that feels right for you. Barbara’s team is carefully screened, and all readings focus on empowerment and truth.
Do you offer readings for love, career, and twin flames?
Yes. We offer specialized readings in love & relationships, twin flames, career & life purpose, mediumship, and more. First-time callers receive 5 minutes free.
We look forward to helping you with loving answers, insights and connections.
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